Tips and Advice on Planning a Meeting with a Russian Woman
How to be Well Prepared for the Personal Meeting with Slavic Lady

One of the most important milestones in your journey to find a Russian or Ukrainian partner is planning a real-life meeting. While some men travel to Eastern Europe and walk into a local marriage agency hoping to arrange a date with someone from a profile or printed catalog, such an approach often leads to disappointment. You could easily waste your time and money, or worse—be scammed.

Our advice? Start by writing a personal letter to a Slavic Woman on our Dating Website. If the lady likes your profile and message, she will write back. This is your opportunity to get to know each other through letters and video chats. Once the connection feels promising, it’s time to arrange a face-to-face meeting.

Real chemistry can only be tested in person. While online communication helps build a foundation, it has its limits. We recommend not prolonging the virtual phase for too long. The sooner you meet in person, the more genuine the connection can become.

Plan your travel dates in advance, even before you begin correspondence. This shows that you are serious and committed. Ideally, plan to meet within 2–3 months and no later than 6 months. Waiting too long might send the wrong signal and lead the lady to lose interest.

How to Behave on a Meeting with Slavic Woman
What to Do and What Topics are Better to Avoid

As mentioned earlier, think about your travel plans before starting a serious conversation. You don’t need hundreds of letters or dozens of video calls to decide if a personal meeting is worth it. Showing a genuine intention to meet will help keep her interest strong and steady.

Here are some important tips to make your meeting smooth and enjoyable:

• Give yourself time to rest after your flight. Arrive calm, fresh and ready to make a great impression.


• Avoid drinking alcohol. Even one glass of wine can affect how you`re perceived. A man with a drinking habit is one of the biggest turn-offs for women in Eastern Europe. Here’s an interesting article explaining why.


• Bring a small gift. A nice perfume from the duty-free shop works great. It doesn’t need to be expensive—thoughtfulness is what counts.


• Talk about who you are and the kind of woman you`re looking for, rather than showing off your possessions or financial status.


• Encourage her to speak about herself. Ask questions, smile and keep the mood light with a bit of humor.


• Avoid talking about your ex (unless you co-parent). Don’t ask her too much about hers either. Just be clear that you are single, free to marry and looking for a genuine relationship.


• Start with light topics, but don’t shy away from discussing meaningful things—family, kids, work, values, lifestyle. Don’t waste each other’s time.


• Always pay the bill, even if the meeting doesn`t lead to something more. Often, a casual coffee or short walk creates a better vibe than a full meal on a first date.


• If you`d like to see her again—later the same day or the next—let her know. Women appreciate confident men who take initiative.

Successful or Unsuccessful Meeting
What is Important for Both Parties to Have a Good Experience

Traveling to meet someone always involves time, energy, and cost. Even if you’re planning to meet just one lady, it’s wise to build connections with a few. It may slightly increase your travel budget, but your chances of meeting the right woman also grow. Choose ladies from the same city or nearby areas to keep things manageable.

Sometimes, a meeting helps you realize that the connection isn’t quite right—and that’s okay. You might not be the person she’s looking for, and vice versa. That’s part of the journey. Our agency’s experienced matchmakers are here to support you and help arrange new introductions, if needed.

Whether the meeting leads to love or simply gives clarity, the most important thing is to have a respectful and pleasant experience. Both of you are searching for something real. You gave it a try, and that in itself is a step toward the relationship you truly deserve.